A Man Shouldn’t Be Scared Of Spending His Wife’s Money – Nigerian Lady

According to a writer and counsellor from Nigeria, men often feel guilty or afraid about using their wives’ money because of social pressure.

Going by the moniker Blackwoman on Twitter, the lady said she is not enthused about the fact that men have been programmed to be insecure by women to the extent they don’t feel comfortable spending their partner’s money.

According to the life coach, most men always get upset about returning any money their girlfriends provided them, but this shouldn’t be the case.

She wrote; “I hate that men are too scared to spend their women’s money or even accept any form of financial help without immediately planning on how to return the money or it’s equivalent how did we even get here, how did we disrespect these men and make them so insecure?”

The post resonated with some tweeps who emerged under the post to leave their reactions as sighted by Tru News Report.

@Austeiin said; Based on the engagement I’ve had with some dudes, most of these ladies end up using that moment of assistance to mock them or shade them later in the future & not many dudes have the strength to come back after their egos have been bruised. Thank for mine sha 🙏

@unclebobbybob; Davido’s cousin, nephew of Osun state’s governor, and son of a billionaire had issues with his wife. She came online to “tarnish” him that he asked her for 10k. She even dropped receipts. If your own wife that you have spent millions on can do that every man should be careful

@LouisExciting; Many women mock men badly when they are down financially. And it’s something that really gets to a man, a man loves to provide, if he has the slightest thought that the woman he is with will mock him for asking or spending her money when he does not have. He will not ask her

Source – Tru News Report