My Husband Was A Good Man But I Still Divorced Him After 25 Years- Actress, Shaffy Bello
Shaffy Bello has explained why her 25-year marriage ended. while speaking with media personality Chude in a fresh interview.
Shaffy revealed that her ex-husband was situated in the US and that she did not feel comfortable with their long-distance relationship.
According to her, although Mr Akinrimisi, her ex-husband, was a good father, their long-distance relationship led to their divorce. The mother of two claimed that although she would frequently fly back and forth to see him, she eventually realized that she wanted more from the relationship.
Shaffy said: “He [my ex-husband] was a good father to his children. But I got to a place where I wanted more. And I would always travel back and forth.
But I knew at a point that if I really want this, it came with a sacrifice. It wasn’t a sacrifice of marriage, but then he being there [USA] and the distance didn’t help.”
In other news, a Nigerian woman has taken to social media to reveal that she regrets intervening in her parents’ marriage since it prevented her from sharing meals with her siblings and her.
The woman, Pera, complained that her parents’ incessant verbal sparring in front of them was getting old. The kids made the decision to become involved and advised their parents to simply file for divorce if they could no longer stand each other.
She asserts that when she and her siblings phoned a lawyer for that reason, their mother originally indicated that they would heed the advice, but she then stopped giving them food.
In her words; “My parents o.. those people use to fight plenty yeye fight one time (not physical o).. we were getting so irritated.. so my siblings and I called them together to have a meeting so I led the meeting as per first born things.. after telling them how tired we were of their constant quarrels I said “my siblings and I have spoken to a divorce lawyer and we think both of u should get a divorce.. thank God ur kids are now adults” my siblings too nodded
My mum asked whose decision it was.. we said all of us they thank us and said they will think about it.. Later that night mum made food for her husband alone we asked for our food she asked us to go and meet lawyer my dad and his wife did gbonku gbonku with us for 2 weeks straight.. for one week dey dint even answer our greetings she would say “my forever come and eat no force on earth can break us not even the worms that came out of us” then her “forever’ will reply saying ” the wife of my youth and the one that will be by myself when my hair turns grey I will love u till eternity”
Well sha they never fought in front of us again and even if they do my siblings and I already vowed never to put mouth in their matter again.. As in iya yemi locked her food store and hid the key for 2 weeks!!! There is no loyalty in this world at all.”
